Contrary to popular belief, debt collectors can be negotiated with; however, being knowledgeable about your rights is essential to securing a good deal. I would not advise going up against a seasoned professional debt collector without being properly prepared. The first thing that you need is a clear and concise plan: Before you start educating yourself about your rights you should put in writing what it is that you want to accomplish. Don't let this process overwhelm you; it need not be a complicated. You can start simply state:
1. Learn Federal and State laws concerning debt collections.
2. See how they apply to my situation.
To have any control over your financial future, then you absolutely must make being in control of how much information you allow a debt collector to have to be your number one priority. You do yourself severe damage when you try to explain why you can not pay a bill. They do not care about that; and, it only gives them control that you really do not want them to have. Do NOT tell debt collectors what you do for work or where you work. They will only use this information against you. I do not care how nice or important they sound or appear to be. I understand what it is like when you speak to someone who you consciously or unconsciously think of as a figure of authority. Some people get nervous and start babbling about everything; but, what you need to keep in mind is debt collectors do not have control over your life and finances. YOU are in control and until you see that you will continue to be victimised by any and every bully that comes along. You are the authority figure in your life. Your finances are in your control and under your command. The only person that can straighten out your financial situation is YOU.
The next thing that you should do is Prioritise your bills. The most important bills are your monthly bills like: rent,mortgage, telephone, food, fuel and car payment etc.... Ignore threats, pleas to the contrary by debt collectors. Do not allow yourself to be pressured into making pay arrangements that you can not afford.
When you make a verbal agreement concerning a pay off or payment plan with a debt collector, make absolutely certain that you don't give them a penny until you have the agreed upon terms in writing. Here are some informative links to get you started.